Robot Pets?

There is plenty of documented evidence that caring for a pet is therapeutic for older people. The closeness and companionship of a cat or dog can bring a sense of comfort and calmness to both the senior and the pet.

What if the person is unable to care for a pet? Well, there is an option out there. Developed in 2003 by the National Institute of Advanced Industrial Science and Technology in Japan, "Paro", the robot seal, is a furry creation designed to arch its back when scratched, turn its head to make the reach easier when rubbed, and coo and whimper just like a baby seal. Because Paro is so lifelike, people tend to believe in it and be affectionate to it. The creator, Dr. Walter Shibata, says he modeled the robot after a baby seal because people think they are cute but have little experience with them. Dr. Shibata says people that interact with the robot tend to be cheered up, motivated and talkative, just like those who care for animals.

At this time, the robot is not widely sold in the United States and like any new technology, is a bit pricey. But perhaps, its time has come.

People Who Need People

Everyday in the newspaper and on television, we see ads for dating services or other matchmaking services. Singles groups are organized in our churches along with support groups for divorced men and women. People everywhere are lonely. And for various reasons. Many of our older generation experience loneliness due to isolation while caring for a loved one. This can go on for years! Families live at a distance and older friends have their own infimities or have passed on. Many find themselves unable to tell loved ones or doctors of their loneliness and depression becomes very real. The University of Chicago recently reported a study showing that not all lonely people need other people. They attach an object or pet with humanlike qualities and this substitution provides the social support they need. I know having a pet can be a joy for some while others must find another substitute. What's the old song? Oh yea, "People who need people...are the luckiest people in the world. " Be a person someone needs today. Spend some time with them or make a phone call. You'll be surprised how good it makes YOU feel.