Look Who's Moving In

More baby boomers are preparing to care for their aging parents by remodeling their living accommodations. According to the Atlanta Journal Constitution, boomers are remodeling or building new homes to accommodate parents now or in the future. From efficiency apartments to entire suites with elevator access, children of aging parents are accepting responsibility in providing a suitable living arrangement for their family.

Not all adult children can or will accept the additional financial burden to the budget. And this is acceptable but should be discussed between the family members BEFORE the need occurs. If children remain at home, they should be considered in the equation and not be expected to shoulder a major portion of care for the elderly family member. Privacy for all is an important component. No matter what age, children should, however, be expected to contribute their share to household maintenance as usual, and, in my opinion, companionship to the grandparent on a regular basis should be STRONGLY encouraged.

This type of living arrangement is not for every family. But more American caregivers are finding it may be the only realistic way to provide care for their aging parents.

Robot Pets?

There is plenty of documented evidence that caring for a pet is therapeutic for older people. The closeness and companionship of a cat or dog can bring a sense of comfort and calmness to both the senior and the pet.

What if the person is unable to care for a pet? Well, there is an option out there. Developed in 2003 by the National Institute of Advanced Industrial Science and Technology in Japan, "Paro", the robot seal, is a furry creation designed to arch its back when scratched, turn its head to make the reach easier when rubbed, and coo and whimper just like a baby seal. Because Paro is so lifelike, people tend to believe in it and be affectionate to it. The creator, Dr. Walter Shibata, says he modeled the robot after a baby seal because people think they are cute but have little experience with them. Dr. Shibata says people that interact with the robot tend to be cheered up, motivated and talkative, just like those who care for animals.

At this time, the robot is not widely sold in the United States and like any new technology, is a bit pricey. But perhaps, its time has come.